Doodle (Dhaka: February 4, 1994) © Jerome D'Costa
Gossip
“Oh, do you know?”
“Oh, did you hear?”
“Do you know what happened?”
“I’ve something interesting to tell
you!”
These are all introductory talk to
get the attention of the listener.
The content of the talk veers on
hearsay, made-up stories,
Incomplete information, a mixture of
truths and half-truths,
Innuendos and insinuations galore,
Embellished and unflattering news
about one’s neighbour.
Although this is the product of an
active mind of the gossiper,
It’s cooking up of stories about the
gossipee.
This way, the gossiper gives away his
or her inner self,
Which is disrespectful, vindictive and
short.
The gossiper has “I’m-better-than-thou”
attitude,
Who wants peace of mind, an emptying
of the jar
By vomiting all the lengthy tales
accumulated inside.
The peace of mind comes for a while
only,
But again, as if by default, he or
she engages in the same practice.
Gossiping is such a waste of time, energy
and creativity.
It is so much of demeaning of oneself
and stooping down below the gossipee,
In spite of having better things to
say and better things to do --
That would really uplift oneself to a
more humane level.
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